Simplicity Celebration ~ Waldorf After Schooling

swimming class

For the last week and a half Edie has been going to town every morning to take swimming lessons. It’s a bit of haul (40 minutes each way) but she has had the swimming bug all summer long and now she’s eager to “learn how to be a better swimmer”.

I was reluctant to sign her up for swimming classes when she was smaller.

I knew it would be wise to have her swimming laps sooner than later due to our favourite swimming hole being, at times, a raging river but, inspired by Steiner teachings and then going by my intuition, I became an advocate for her to spend the first few years exploring water in her own terms and have fun splashing with no level attaining agenda for as long as possible.

swim class again

But this year she declared she wanted to be ‘a better’ swimmer and is excited to wake up super early each morning to make it to her 25 minute class on time. I don’t think she would have been this courageous if we had gone this route even just last year. Oh, wait a minute, we did try lessons at the lake last year in which she dolefully spent the majority of the five lessons pouting on the shore. She has come along way this magical year of hole-y smiles :)

swimming hole yet again

 

After her swimming class, we then scoop up a steamed rice milk for her, a (nother) latte for me and drive home for lunch, pack a snack and head straight straight on over to our favourite watering hole/raging river so she can play with her friends and little brother and once in while practice a few of the moves she picked up from the morning adventure. Mostly play, splashing and dog paddling though.

The rhythm of this past week and a half of formal lesson and then playing lessons had me thinking about the upcoming school year and how my thoughts were recently echoed in this timely  blog post about Waldorf After schooling .

 

swimming hole again

Like everyone’s decision around education choices this one has many layers and components to it. Lately I’ve been feeling compelled to make some shifts to make room for me to follow my calling outside of parenting and home educating. Edie, in turn, has been displaying signs of being ready for group learning. She is rip, roaring and ready as much as Edie can possibly get (it’s very, very subtle) and I’m excited to put my coaching services and new Simplicity Parenting Virtual workshops out to the world (soon to be announced!) that will help mamas all over the world connect to what uniquely matters most to their families and illuminate where life isn’t serving them or their kids (ooooo, smells like new tagline!).

Homeschooling has served us well over the past three years.

The Waldorf principles rang a deep donging bell in me on the importance of allowing the time, rhythm and other energetic allowances to hold the space for the child’s soulful unfolding of self. Especially a child that is as quiet, sensitive and reserved as Edie. I have to admit that for a bit there I was worried that after five years of diving deep in the pedagogy of Waldorf education my Waldorf tendencies will make me hyper-critical of what my hand-knitted vest wearing flower will be exposed to.

This article  brought much comfort that I’m not alone in this concern. Ideally, Edie would be going to the Waldorf school but that’s a 45 minute drive away; not something in alignment with our values of living sustainably and peak oil freaking. We considered moving closer to town but that would mean giving up our sweet little set up here.

We decided that this is indeed where we want to stay and prosper all Little House and Star Trek like.

We signed up for the alternative school in this alternative community and view it as an opportunity to be more involved with our beloved locals (remember my hermit like tendencies?), provide Edie with some experiences that she appears to be ready and even yearning for and will help lighten my load a little bit so I can hunker down and launch these products and services waiting to bust out of me.  I’m cramping right now as I type.

swimming hole

Like in the The Little Acorn article, I too plan on keeping the Waldorf home fires burning as I will be offering a low-tech, wholesome, natural home environment that will serve as an oasis of retreat if God forbid there hasn’t happen to be  a hand-dyed silk puppet show on any particular day.

It feels like things might get a little more simple. Or maybe more complicated. That’s the fun part of a grand adventure; you just don’t know until you try.

But we are moving in the direction of our values of community, adventure and right livelihood.

And with that I give this decision, and simplicity celebration, a huge thumbs up (which, by the way, is what the kids do at this school instead of raising their hands. Isn’t that cool in a totally Fonz way?)

 

How’s the approaching fall providing you with an opportunity to celebrate a little more simplicity in your lives?

xx

6 Responses

  1. Lisa says:

    We swim in a river too! With rocky rapids..it’s fun!
    This fall with be very strange for me. My 18 year old is finishing highschool where she has gone for the past 2 years after getting up to grade 9.5 as a homeschooler. My 14 year old is starting online highschool this sept. I feel like her childhood is over. She wants to do it but the transition from homeschooling to full time classes online is a huge leap. I am thankfully home to support her during this time. Celebrating simplicity…one day at a time and enjoying every last single moment of summer..spending so much time at the river!

  2. Funky Mommy says:

    We joined in again this week:

    http://littlebirdvv.blogspot.com/2012/08/simplicity-celebration-tuesdays_21.html

    We’ve decided to homeschool Waldorf Kindy and just keep things relaxed and simple around here. I am embrace this precious time with my littles at home.

  3. Angie says:

    This fall we’re simplifying things by trying out the Christopherous curriculum. Last year I put together a curriculum that we followed, but it became stressful as I realized I really don’t have enough teaching experience to really figure out how to be an effective teacher in the moment.
    The year before, my oldest son went to the local Waldorf school, and it was much too stressful for him. He was in a multi-age class and got teased a bit for being the youngest. Also, he had gone from being at home to a full 5-day week, and it was just too overwhelming. He was not himself at all for the whole year, and it was a big relief for him to be home again.
    The Christopherus curriculum has been so interesting to read, but I’m a little intimidated by all the suggestions, but I’m hoping that by trying to keep things as simple as possible, it will something we all enjoy.

    • Kathy says:

      Angie, I loved our Christopherus curriculm!! If we ever homeschool again (who knows, we might!) I’m going to back to that one for sure. I’m giving Edie that window too to come back to home if this doesn’t work out ;)

  4. lee lee says:

    Looks like Edie is on her way to become a swimmer!
    This fall to simplify,I am going to make a to do list and choose to do the top 3 things that need to be done.
    About schooling, I believe that most learning takes place at home. Group learning allows a chance to be with friends. This was very important for my daughter ,who is a people person. She always had her “best ” friends.My son,was not as social,but loved working on games,projects… with a few buddies.Following the lead ,what your child is interested in-is a great way to “teach”.Finding their passion,joy-what makes their heart sing….. Kids also need to learn to be kind to each other.

  5. Amanda says:

    Oh, thumbs up to the alternative school! If I had access to anything like that I’d enroll my 7 y/o Waldo-flower in a thumb-beat. We live in a pretty conventional small town for now and there are no alternative options to the mainstream public school. And so, as it is, I’m digging in to a Waldorf 2nd grade curriculum and and seeking guidance on how I can make room in my life for something else. Because while I do love living in a Waldorf environment, I’m feeling a wee bit o’panic about being able to ever do anything else. My 4 y/o son is happy all day to play and float in the rhythm (so long as there are Legos in the mix). But the 7 y/o daughter is a bit of a vortex right now, needing more than I have to give, and really needing other kids (but this would have to be a gentle and small environment). This in-town Waldorf vacuum is *not* what I had in mind when we began our homeschool journey. I’m at my toughest point yet right now, for sure! Trying to simplify, fill my well, and center. Best wishes for you & Edie. This school sounds like a great thing for you!

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